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#1 Old 5th Dec 2011 at 12:11 AM Last edited by Amjosa : 5th Dec 2011 at 12:42 AM.
Default WCIF Polygamy/polyamory mod
Does anyone know where I can find a mod that allows sims to go steady with or marry more than one other sim, if there is one? I've been looking everywhere but all I can find is mods that remove jealousy.
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Mad Poster
#2 Old 7th Dec 2011 at 7:36 PM
Well you could use one of these links:

1. http://www.sexysims2.com/

2. http://www.sexysims2.com/showthread...5#startcomments

This is a sister site to Mod The Sims, but I never use it. You'll have to register and be over eighteen, etc. If you can't use that for some reason, try this one:

3. http://www.the-isz.com/nraas/index....ed-2011-dec-05/

You have to register here as well, but there some nice mods. If you can't have multiple marriages, just give your Sim a partner and some girlfriends, and give them all the new reward No Jealousy. That could work for harem Sims.
Test Subject
#3 Old 16th Jan 2012 at 9:45 PM
I'm looking for a multiple marriage mod as well. I already have Nraas's stuff, but I really would like it to be set to multiple marriages. Anyone find anything like this out there?
Test Subject
#4 Old 25th Feb 2012 at 3:38 AM
Default How to set polygamous marriages
Quote: Originally posted by amberann1011
I'm looking for a multiple marriage mod as well. I already have Nraas's stuff, but I really would like it to be set to multiple marriages. Anyone find anything like this out there?

Sorry for taking up an old thread, but maybe someone still wants to have this info.
If you have NRaas' DebugEnabler by Twallan, (http://nraas.wikispaces.com/DebugEnabler+Phase+Five), you can trick the game into letting your Sim be married to more than one spouse at the same time. You install the DebugEnabler package in your Mods folder in the usual way (make sure you've got the right version for your game).
Suppose you have Sims A, B. C and D, and you want A, B and C to be married to D but not to each other (polygynous and polyandrous marriages are like that). (1) Select Sim A. (2) Click on Sim D while keeping A active. (3) Click on NRaas. (4) Click on DebugEnabler. (5) Click on Options:Sim. (6) A window with various options appears; select Relationship. (7) In the next window, select SetRelationship. (8) Select MakeSpouse. Now select Sim B. Repeat this process for Sims B and C, and you'll have A, B and C all appearing as D's husbands or wives.
You can obviously set up any combination of multiple marriages this way. You could have a swinger-style marriage, where A and B are married to both C and D (but A is not married to B, nor C to D), or a plural marriage in which everyone is everyone's spouse, etc.
It helps to have the NoJealousy reward so your Sims get along, but it's not essential for this trick to work. For some reason, using the SetRelationship option in Nraas' Master Controller doesn't let you set up multiple marriages, but it works using DebugEnabler.
A few small blemishes: You can't have multiple weddings, just multiple marriages. Also, the game sometimes gets confused about who a Sims' partner is (the category partner is distinct from that of spouse); sometimes, it lists another adult in the polygamous marriage instead of the spouse(s). Also, it only lists one partner. As well, the game can't help moralizing a little: a Sim who has multiple spouses gets the reputation of being a manipulator, even if they're officially married. But hey. At least your Sim's multiple spouses will all officially be listed as its wives or husbands, complete with little ring symbols under their pictures in the relationship panel.
Test Subject
#5 Old 9th Mar 2012 at 3:29 AM
Since the EGC hasn't been updated since 1.26, I'm really missing polygamy. None of the mods in the first post exist anymore, and there is no poly mod by NRASS. In fact, here is what Twallen says about polygamy:

Quote:
Does this mod allow multiple romantic partners ?
anchor : [[Woohooer FAQ#Polyamory]]

No, the game's Core code does not provide the data structures needed to deal with multiple romantic partners.

Since the relationship data is used in many different parts of the game, overcoming that with a mod would entail a virtual rewrite of the entire game.

Any less than that would result in parts of the game not handling the data correctly, with the risk of data corruption.
So it is not possible to implement Polyamory/Polygamy in a reliable fashion using a pure scripting mod approach.


However, there is nothing stopping you from having multiple romantic interests.

Provide all parties with the "No Jealousy" lifetime want to stop jealousy from causing issues.
You can effectively have as single second "spouses" in this manner, though you can only have one official spouse


Further, my Sims can't have a new girl/boyfriend without automatically becoming divorced (I'm playing with 1.29). I never had this problem before. And the no jealousy lifetime reward works, sure, but I end end up with a divorced couple and a negative relationship anyway. I hope someone figures out a solution soon, because my poly story lines have always been my favourites
Lab Assistant
#6 Old 12th Mar 2012 at 7:38 AM
You can't marry more than one sim in the same location (you can be married to a different sim in a vacation world). http://nraas.wikispaces.com/Woohooe...ntic partners ?


Edit: fieriee, I think this mod will stop your couples from breaking up http://www.modthesims.info/d/446164
Test Subject
#7 Old 6th Sep 2012 at 9:33 AM
thanks
http://www.the-isz.com/nraas/index....ed-2011-dec-05/

You have to register here as well, but there some nice mods. If you can't have multiple marriages, just give your Sim a partner and some girlfriends, and give them all the new reward No Jealousy. That could work for harem Sims.[/QUOTE]

Thanks I didn't want multiple marriages but multiple everything else
Test Subject
#8 Old 15th Dec 2013 at 12:28 AM
Just because the GAME won't proclaim everybody married doesn't mean YOU can't. You're writing the story, the game is just a framework. If the game disagrees with the way you want to play, find a workaround ... mine is in NRaas WooHooer:

With the NRaas WooHooer, you can set "No Polyamorous Jealousy" and keep all of your husbands/wives at Romantic Interest, set the My Love buff and spouse interactions to the Any Romantic level. You can then have everybody get romantic with each other in private, then once they all have the heart with each other, you can openly get freaky: kissing, hugging, massaging, woohooing, none of it causes a jealous reaction. It does create a very minor negative LTR hit, but if a sim can't deal with minor LTR hits every now and then, then she's just not socializing with all of the parties in the relationship.

Then, whenever they have a desire to get married, or if you want them to get married for pictures in your story, you can let them, then have somebody with Relationship Transmogrifier un-do the wedding immediately thereafter, setting them back to best friends, which is put back to romantic interest a kiss later. (The transmogrifier sets "romantic interest" to just below "friend" level, so Best Friend for the high LTR and a kiss is easier.) If you don't have University for the Social Networking skill that gives the transmogrifier, you can always use Master Controller or Debugger to set the relationship that way. No divorce necessary.
Test Subject
#9 Old 1st Apr 2014 at 2:15 AM
Quote: Originally posted by Amjosa
Does anyone know where I can find a mod that allows sims to go steady with or marry more than one other sim, if there is one? I've been looking everywhere but all I can find is mods that remove jealousy.



Here is the link to the arch that will allow you to marry more than one sim. Also getting the insimenator will allow you to use the no jealous mod.....
http://modthesims.info/download.php?t=223528
http://www.insimenator.org/index.ph...c,100226.0.html
Instructor
#10 Old 1st Apr 2014 at 1:32 PM
Quote: Originally posted by Tigress7
Here is the link to the arch that will allow you to marry more than one sim. Also getting the insimenator will allow you to use the no jealous mod.....
http://modthesims.info/download.php?t=223528
http://www.insimenator.org/index.ph...c,100226.0.html



That is a mod for the sims 2
and Amjosa posted this before 3 years
Test Subject
#11 Old 31st Aug 2014 at 4:32 AM
Default Actually..
Quote: Originally posted by Radiquale
A few small blemishes: You can't have multiple weddings, just multiple marriages.

Actually you can have multiple weddings. Change the relationship to engaged with the method stated above. Place a wedding Arch-it will display the get married interaction.
Test Subject
#12 Old 10th Oct 2014 at 11:36 AM
Can someone pass me the link mod for many women / husband? thank you!
Test Subject
#13 Old 7th Mar 2016 at 11:53 PM
does anyone know of a polygamy mod for sims 4
I have clicked on a few of the links above and they all seem to be sims 3 or 2
IF there is already one in the thread above im sorry
Alchemist
#14 Old 8th Mar 2016 at 6:09 PM
Quote: Originally posted by jenjen111
does anyone know of a polygamy mod for sims 4
I have clicked on a few of the links above and they all seem to be sims 3 or 2
Well, you're in the Sims 3 forum... You should probably ask in the Sims 4 one

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#15 Old 24th Feb 2019 at 7:40 AM
Sadly the site is up for sale.
Quote: Originally posted by KKiryu007Joker
Well you could use one of these links:

1. http://www.sexysims2.com/

2. http://www.sexysims2.com/showthread...5#startcomments

This is a sister site to Mod The Sims, but I never use it. You'll have to register and be over eighteen, etc. If you can't use that for some reason, try this one:

3. http://www.the-isz.com/nraas/index....ed-2011-dec-05/

You have to register here as well, but there some nice mods. If you can't have multiple marriages, just give your Sim a partner and some girlfriends, and give them all the new reward No Jealousy. That could work for harem Sims.

This site is up for sale and I am using this on my parents' computer.
Alchemist
#16 Old 24th Feb 2019 at 9:44 AM
Quote: Originally posted by DanielleTrujillo8
This site is up for sale and I am using this on my parents' computer.


Nraas moved awhile ago.
https://www.nraas.net/community/
Mad Poster
#17 Old 24th Feb 2019 at 9:21 PM
Quote: Originally posted by varpunen
Nraas moved awhile ago.

Really? I do wish someone would tell me these things...

We've actually had to move twice since back then, for those keeping track.
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#18 Old 24th Feb 2019 at 9:31 PM
Quote: Originally posted by igazor
Really? I do wish someone would tell me these things...

Alchemist
#19 Old 24th Feb 2019 at 10:00 PM
Quote: Originally posted by igazor
Really? I do wish someone would tell me these things...

We've actually had to move twice since back then, for those keeping track.


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