so I need some help decidin on which way I should go .. I'm playin MeetMe's clean Pleasantview and have added in half of the stealth families (also by MM) .. I've just finished playin a sim week (I think) .. and now I'm lookin at addin in a few more sims .. so which should I add in:
1. Bluewater Village
2. Strangetown
3. The rest of the stealth families

With Strangetown I think it's worth giving some serious thought to if you want townie Bella Goth showing up. Personally, I wouldn't.

I think Bluewater Village would be fun, but again you need to think on whether you'll enjoy running businesses. I haven't played Bluewater in a decade myself though so it just sounds like fun!

Try renaming it, add a z to the front of the filename.

You could also use the HCDU+ to find what is conflicting:
https://www.picknmixmods.com/Sims2/...s/HcduPlus.html

I know but sometime it is funny to play opposite style. :D

Actually, a version of the disk case of my game (I played before UC) said "fulfill their [your sims] deebest fears" according to "Fullfill their wants". This is translated edition.

Actually, if you are supposed to do something in the game, the game gives you a "prize" for it. In this situation, the prize is the therapist and your sim doing weird things, like hugging the flour sack baby or listening a football. In contract: If the social worker take your child away in TS3 there is no any prize. No animations, no sad messages, not even possibility to adobt them by other family. Your child just disapper. Saying as as a person who have studied Game Design.