I had MATY's No Uni Protect, but the dormies kept dying, and its hard to date when your boyfriend/girlfriend/target won't eat and then kneels over and dies. Because maxis couldn't give the Dormies basic intelligence.

As said, I tried No Uni Protect but had issues with it, but I couldn't find anything else. So does anyone have a mod that makes dormies smarter when dealing with needs?

Not sure if this mod affects dormies, but there's simNopke's unreleased mod (you can find it on his/her tumblr) called "care don't wave", with this mod sims automatically focus on filling their needs when they're low instead of whining and waving at the player.